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Mr.B.Crow from Leamington Spa wrote to say….

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http://identi.ca/conversation/20122521#notice-20122521

The word “cunt”, is a fabulous word. With timing and judgement, it’s like dropping a nuclear powered stink bomb into a converstation. The problem isn’t the word, the problem I have is when the joy of using the word is eroded because it’s special status within language hasn’t been respected.

Let us put aside the discussions about it’s neo sexist connotation for a moment, the staffers and hacks can cover that territory ad infinitum. It’s pejorative meaning in the second and third person is just as problematic. If no-one were to challenge the validity of it’s use in spurious cases (such as an only slightly questionable decision by Ubuntu to change the default search engine), doesn’t that devalue the word the next time you need to express it’s meaning? For instance, if a guy opens fire with a machine in a packed shopping mall for no reason, he would be a murdering bastard. If they were to go one worse and open fire in a kindergarten school yard, you’ve got no cathartic language left. What are you going to call them? “That guy who shot my kid is a mudering [person who would change the default seach engine setting]“.

I’m annoyed at the lazyness of it. I realise that the Microblog format can be limiting. But isn’t that a challenge to be even more creative? Trotting out words like cunt thoughtlessly in instances like the one I’ve linked to above, reduces the speaker to barking like a dog. Without vocabulary and creative composition, then  the only way to express anger is volume and aggressive, monosyllabic shock. In terms of the point of the communication, it’s also highly likely that poorly judged use is also going to be counterproductive. You may have a smattering of support from those who are similarly angered. But many who may previously have been receptive to pursuasion to your view, will recoil or even entrench themselves in the opposite opinion solely due to their perception of your agression.

You are of course free to hold and express any opinion you choose. The thing is, I feel the way this person has done it reflects badly on the community as a whole, of which I am part. So next time, please, be more imaginative.

Thank you!

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1 comment to Mr.B.Crow from Leamington Spa wrote to say….

  • Words are free. The dictionary is filled with words that anyone can use, free of charge! Big words, small words, bland and colorful words. The true beauty of words however, can only be seen when multiple words are arranged in various sequences.

    For the most part, I prefer word sequences to be sentences, or at least semi-comprehensible thoughts that express an reasoned opinion.

    One word epithets, while displaying one’s distaste for various actions, do not have the punch of a thought out, well reasoned argument.

    The tools or writing and communication are there; the creativity is not.

    Damn lazy kids…. get off my lawn!

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